Long Island Matchmaking Methodology

For starters, we understand that finding your perfect match takes time– a great deal of time. Singles who work full-time have little extra time to spend scouring dating sites. Also, they are fed up with the misleading and never-ending frustrations associated with online “software driven- database-centric” singles sites. Anyone who has used them knows they are plagued with dishonest profiles.

Genuine and authentic Long Island Singles
Genuine and authentic Long Island Singles

Maybe you’re too busy to meet new people outside your network of friends. Or perhaps you don’t want to date the most recently divorced people in your close network. Maybe you just haven’t been meeting other quality, relationship-minded men or women; the type of man or woman you’ve always dreamed of meeting. Long Island Matchmaking offers an exclusive, private, and creative approach for finding quality matches. A perfect solution for time-conscious singles with no time to to do the searching, screening and personal marketing themselves. And the best part is our service can do it all more professionally for you than you can!

Match Screening

Singles from Montauk to Manhattan.
Singles from Montauk to Manhattan

Long Island Matchmaking has thousands of social contacts we pre-screen to find quality, eligible matches. We develop effective “love campaigns” for all our clients. We handpick each candidate based on compatibility factors, shared values, interests and personal aesthetic preferences. Most matches take place via relaxed, moderated introductions designed to foster tangible results. Afterwards, Long Island Matchmaking provides useful feedback to help refine the process. We then recalibrate our clients for their next introduction or second date. All throughout the process we encourage romantic lasting connections.

Long Island Matchmaking does not claim to have thousands (or hundreds of thousands of members). Nor do we have the elite singles that so many matchmaking services claim to have, or pre-defined categories of people. In fact we do not publish any gallery of photographs or databases for our members directly to search. Our clients come to us, and we provide them with the tools and assets necessary to expand their networks. We then make them more visible and desirable through the process.

The Long Island Matchmaking Process

When accepted as a new client, your experience begins formally after connecting with your personal matchmaker. They will first discuss your dating history and partner preferences with you. Your personal matchmaker will help identify your top priorities of what you’re looking for in a partner. Then LIM will begin the search and branding process, all the while preparing you for your first match. While you’re providing valuable input, your matchmaker will be busy behind the scenes identifying possible matches and interviewing potential candidates.

When choices are made, we’ll plan and schedule an appropriate location to introduce the two of you. Following the initial meeting, we’ll obtain feedback to clear up any “what did he/she really think of me?” questions, and to refine your search going forward. It’s a simple process we repeat until you’re interested in pursuing a lasting relationship with one of your matches.

Long Island Matchmaking singles range in age from twenty-one to over 80 years of age.

LongIslandMatchmaking.com also distributes customized marketing materials to a world-wide, Long Island, and New York City audience. Matches who are willing to relocate, if they find love on Long Island, are included as well.

Other than the information we share on our website, our services are kept strictly confidential. Our matchmakers are always discreet, and We do not sell your information.

Why We Started Long Island Matchmaking

The founder of our company has made hundreds of matches throughout his entrepreneurial business ventures. Many of those matches are still married, have children, and even grand children. Matchmaking was never his main business. He is simply a naturally born matchmaker that has spent most of his life introducing businesses to businesses as well as made thousands of personal connections for his friends and clients.

It is only now, after seeing so many frustrated and lonely singles on Long Island, he has decided to use his unique talents and world wide network of friends, scouts, recruiters, and affiliate matchmakers to help those who have given up on commercial online dating platforms and the phony matchmakers.

Matchmaking Scams

Many matchmakers claim to have thousands of the most desirable and elite singles in their databases. If these matchmakers were truly qualified, why would they claim to have so many singles? If they do, why aren’t their clients matched? Possibly because their databases are way too small or their singles not quite as “Elite” as they claim them to be.

It’s exactly that kind of bate and switch that results in hundreds, if not thousands of negative reviews for those matchmakers. Many have the reputation of simply taking anyone’s money and then dealing with the bad press later. If those matchmakers were truly authentic and professional, they would have very few singles left. Or they are simply misleading their clients.

Experienced In Making Matches That Last

John Joseph Dowling Jr. Founder and Senior Matchmaker.
John Dowling Jr. Founder

Our founder has consulted for other matchmaking services, and he has even created some of their marketing materials. Through that experience he learned that many matchmaking services, over time, develop negative results. These results then lead to an “identity crises” for them, because they are simply ripping people off or not delivering on what they promised. We take on very few clients and we spend more time on each single than most other matchmakers spend on their entire so called “database” of singles. Our confidential process works, and we guarantee results. Once you are a member our services are virtually unlimited until we work as a team to create a successful outcome.

How We Find Our Matches

While some of our methods are unique and confidential, these below are deployed company wide– and even extended to our real world network:

  • Every time we meet an impressive single, we acquire their name and contact information for future use.
  • Long Island Matchmaking generates lists of every single we know. We continuously add to it as our network of recruiters, scouts, and affiliate matchmakers meet new people. Above all, through our organic network of family/friend/community contacts, we know more singles than most anyone.
  • We keep a list of all our single men and another for the single women. These lists only comprise Long Island singles whose character and presentation we find impressive. Weekly, we cross-check individuals from each list looking for quality matches.
  • The senior matchmakers of LIM define our Long Island Singles Life Goals, and criteria for choosing a spouse. We have our singles describe four unique qualities that define them, and more importantly, the top qualities they are looking for in a partner.
  • Besides helping our singles clarify their future, we coach them every step of the way and support their efforts for self improvement.

We Want to See You Find Love

Because of our experience and contacts, we generate more opportunities for matches than you would think possible. With thousands of long-term social media contacts and our real life network, we can produce ample opportunities for Long Island Matchmaking singles.

There’s a lot more to matchmaking than people think, and finding the right match requires a lot of work. But we’re here to help. We understand it’s much harder to meet people today in our technology-centric society. But for that reason, we decided that Long Island Matchmaking could help cure some of this “Plague” of loneliness.

Now it’s Up to You!

Contact us and register for a one hour free consultation and interview. We’d love to help. You do not have to be lonely any more. Let our matchmakers work with you to help you find your soulmate or next chapter of love.

Long Island Matchmaking’s guarantee is simple and demonstrates our confidence in our integrity, effectiveness, and commitment to our singles. Long Island Matchmaking unconditionally guarantees that you are 100% satisfied with our efforts at any time during our service period or we will refund the balance of your fee (prorated based on services already utilized) no questions asked.