What makes LongIslandMatchmaking.com different? First off  Perhaps you have had enough of the misleading – and very exposed – never ending searching and dishonest profiles associated with most of the online dating services, or you're just tired of how much time it takes. Maybe you're too busy to meet new people outside your general network of friends, or you just don't want to date them. You might be picky and haven't been meeting other quality, relationship-minded men or woman, you've always dreamed of meeting.

Avoid The Karpman Drama Triangle at all costs. More and more, matchmakers are finding that reacting to and teaching singles about the problem of dysfunctional communication between couples, families, and friends, is as a way to motivate singles to take responsibility for their relationships and how they communicate. Becoming aware of the Karpman Drama Triangle [...]

Lust is governed by both estrogen and testosterone, in both men and women. Attraction is driven by adrenaline, dopamine, and serotonin—the same chemicals that are released by exciting, novel experiences. Long-term attachment is governed by a very different set of hormones and brain chemicals—oxytocin and vasopressin, which encourage bonding. Interestingly, oxytocin is known as the cuddle hormone, and is the hormone that drives the bond between mother's and their children. Each of these chemicals works in a specific part of the brain to influence lust, attraction and attachment.

New research suggests that many Long Island Singles are becoming more anxious, depressed and lonely Long Island Singles are victims to today’s huge obsession with technology, and Long Island Singles are bearing much of the brunt. In conversation after conversation, Long Island Singles describe themselves as particularly vulnerable to the loneliness of our increasingly digital [...]

Dating can be stressful. It’s only natural to worry about how you’ll come across and whether or not your date will want to continue dating you. But no matter how shy or anxious you feel, you can overcome your nerves and self-consciousness and forge great connections. Never self medicate or drink too much on your dates. Be honest if you are nervous and share with your date that you are excited about the opportunity the relationship is presenting and how you feel.

A matchmaking service takes the personal drudgery out of dating by utilizing the benefits of a matchmaker's team. By working together the searching for interesting, attractive, age appropriate, individuals becomes a team effort and more productive. Just as you might use a personal trainer to get in shape or a financial planner to improve your retirement, Long Island singles outsource their dating lives to Long Island matchmakers.