What is a matchmaking service?

A matchmaking service takes the personal drudgery out of dating by utilizing the benefits of a matchmaker’s team. By working together the searching for interesting, attractive, age appropriate, individuals becomes a team effort and more productive. Just as you might use a personal trainer to get in shape or a financial planner to improve your retirement, Long Island singles outsource their dating lives to Long Island matchmakers.

Is this just another online dating service?

No, Long Island Matchmaking is not another online dating service. This is also not the bait and switch “free dating” membership where other none paying members can not read or see your communications either. LongIslandMatchmaking.com is a personalized, professional, and confidential, matchmaking service. Instead of spending years searching through online profiles or swiping screens, you will spend time with your matchmaker who has already done the majority of the searching for you, so you can have real face-to-face dates. Our matchmakers get to know you, and then hand select your matches as well as introduce you to other singles at real events. Events we have participated in at times for decades. It’s personal, it’s private, it’s effective and a good portion of what we do is off-line.

What makes Long Island Matchmaking different from other matchmaking companies?

• We do the work as a team. You do the dating. From match selection to reservations, we are your coach &concierge. Spend your time dating instead of searching and swiping.
• Long Island Matchmakers have the unique experience that generates exceptional dating opportunities! Our team of matchmakers, affiliate matchmakers, recruiters and scouts are the best. Matchmaking isn’t just our employment; it’s our passion!
• We are here for you. You always have someone to coach and discuss dates with you; unlike online dating, we are here to coach you before and after dates and provide feedback about your dating experiences.
• Long Island Matchmaking will get to know you and your dating preferences. LIM then hand selects matches just for you. We promote you via a world wide audience of singles through our global network of contacts and social networks.
• Long Island Matchmaking provides a face to face experience. If we take you on as a client, we guarantee our services.
• We take dating offline so dating is personal again. No more online profiles for the world to see. It’s just between you and our Senior Matchmakers. Of course when you already have online profiles we can incorporate your existing investment in memberships into our services.

How do I get started?

First, you schedule a discreet, confidential interview with us where we learn more about who you are, and what you are looking for in a match. Either call us at 631.912.7969 or click here to register for free and have a Long Island Matchmaking Senior Matchmaker email you confidentially. We look forward to talking with you and determining if you are a good fit for Long Island Matchmaking and we are a good fit for you.

How will I be matched?

One of our professional matchmakers will hand-select matches for you based on the information we discuss in your initial interview. This info, along with your on-going feedback and social media will be considered. Our network, your previous dates and our matchmaker’s intuition, will also be used. Feedback from every source of data is an important part of our dating process. It allows us to fine tune your matches!

Will Long Island Matchmaking coordinate my dates?

At your options yes we will. Once our matchmakers select a match for you, or you identify a prospective match, we will coordinate everything or leave the communication up to you. Everything we have learned about you is taken into consideration for this process In addition, we respect your confidentiality and only you determine if we can reveal who you are when we are arranging a match. We never reveal your address, last name, phone number, email address or where you work. We will give you a description of your date as well as share why we think you are going to enjoy meeting this match. Then our matchmakers arrange all the date details for you or if you prefer we typically ask both singles who would like to reach out to who and we allow the communication to occur organically between our singles.

What happens after my date?

At the end of the date, you can exchange business cards or phone numbers and make plans to get together again. Following each date, we ask that you contact us with feedback. Feedback is an important part of the matchmaking process. From your comments and overall impression of the person, we’ll fine tune your future matches. The process couldn’t be easier!

Our memberships include guaranteed matches, personalized attention from your matchmaking team, and a selection of other dating services. Our Long Island matchmaker’s will be with you every step of the way, learning about what you want and need in a relationship, using this information to find your most compatible matches, incorporating your social media, and helping you evaluate your dates.

Does Long Island Matchmaking perform background checks?

Long Island Matchmaking knows most of its singles through referral’s and does not conduct background checks. There are a number of reasons for this, including (but not limited to) incomplete or inaccurate record databases. Background checks may provide people with a false sense of security, and we do not want our members to have unrealistic expectations when using our services. Those matchmakers who suggest that they perform background checks are attempting to provide a false sense of security. That is why we always meet our singles in person and use our best intuition to determine if each prospective member has the character of a member we would feel comfortable with referring. We do however check with social media and common friends about each of our singles. We focus our efforts on empowering people to use good judgment and to be responsible for their safety, as they would anywhere else.

How does your pricing compare to other dating options?

As far as pricing goes, Long Island Matchmaking is like everything else in the world… you get what you pay for. We are a fee-based matchmaking service and offer a professional, confidential service at an affordable cost. We fall between online dating sites/ dating apps and high end millionaire matchmakers who charge tens of thousands for their services. Our clients are serious about finding a committed long term partner or spouse and they have chosen to invest in their future. In return, we guarantee our services unconditionally.